Category Archives: Social Etiquette

How To Answer, “How are you?”

As I approached a cashier at the checkout counter today, she greeted me with a smile and asked, “How are you?”  I responded by saying, “I’m fine, thank you. How are you?”  I expected to hear the usual, “Fine, thanks.” … Continue reading

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Chinese Dining Etiquette – Slurping and Burping

From a very young age, American children are taught not to make noises such as slurping or burping at the table while dining.  In the Chinese culture, these sounds are considered compliments to the host when made while dining. For … Continue reading

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Using the Title of “Jr.” Properly

The title of “Jr.” is used when a father and son share the same full name. This title also indicates the father is living. Upon the passing of the father, the title of “Jr.” should no longer be used to … Continue reading

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Serving Snacks in a Serving Bowl

It’s very common to see snacks, such as pretzels or chips, casually set out in large serving bowls at a social gathering, meeting, or in the employee lounge. When serving snacks in this manner, please include a serving utensil so … Continue reading

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Thank You Notes: Electronic vs. Handwritten

I am frequently asked when a handwritten thank you note should be sent vs. an e-mail thank you note. My answer is very simple, always. If someone has taken time to go out of their way to do something special … Continue reading

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Giving Compliments

When giving a compliment, it is important to be sincere. Try to be specific to what you are complimenting. “Great job!”, may be sincere, but, “You did a great job presenting the financial report!”, gives an understanding to what someone … Continue reading

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Compliment Fishing

It is impolite to fish, search, or ask for compliments. Compliments should only be given when the person giving the compliments feels they are justly deserved.

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How To Graciously Accept A Compliment

It is most important to receive a compliment graciously. Often people are too modest when receiving a compliment. However, rejecting a compliment is also rude because you are basically questioning the judgment of the person who gave the compliment. If … Continue reading

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How To Hold Or Carry Gloves

The subject matter of my posts often come from recent experiences in my life. This is how I selected today’s topic, “How To Hold Or Carry Gloves”. I am performing in a local community theater production and the chorus girls … Continue reading

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Engagement “Congratulations”

It is improper to “congratulate” someone on their recent engagement.  By saying, “Congratulations!”, you are inferring you thought they might never find a mate and are therefore insulting them. When someone announces their engagement, you might want to say, “That’s … Continue reading

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