Etiquette School of Ohio

Interview Questions - “Tell me about yourself?”

This interview question used to be my least favorite of all the possible interview questions out there.  At first, it appears to vague.   However, if you give it some thought, it is a wonderful opportunity to sell yourself.  It doesn’t limit you to the questions the interviewer asks.  You have the opportunity to toot your horn here.

Be very careful not to be too casual with this question.  It’s not just chit chat to warm the interview process.  Prepare your sales pitch in advance and deliver it here.   Let the interviewer know why you would be a valuable addition to the company and a strong team player other people want to work with.

Never Kiss and Tell

As tempting as it may be to share the details of our relationships, it is most inappropriate to do so.

If a relationship, date, or one night stand was not a positive experience, do not embarrass the other person.  You wouldn’t want them to say anything about you, would you?

If asked why you broke the relationship, keep it simple and say, “We didn’t click.”

On the flip side, if the relationship is going well and outsiders pry, tell them, “We’re very happy.”

No details necessary.

Dinner Is Ruined

It can happen very easily.  You might read the recipe incorrectly, become distracted while cooking, or forget to set the timer to remind you to take something out of the oven.  No matter how it happened, ruining a meal when you have guests waiting in the dining room for dinner can be devastating.

The first thing to remember in this situation is to remain composed.  Your guests will take their cue from you.  Evaluate what you have on hand.  Can you turn the salad into a main entree?  Is there time to make something else?  If not, before you serve the appetizers or salad, call for carryout.  Most oriental or Indian restaurants deliver.   Don’t even mention the problem to your guests until the doorbell rings for the food delivery.

Your guests will laugh with you and be amazed at how well you handled the situation.